Who am I ?

What kind of person we are? Do we really know? Our image is not same for all. It’s a different face in front of different people. We all are capable of having multiple personalities. But the question is, which one is real?

May be as a friend I am very jolly and well behaved, as a sister I am very naughty and dominant, as a brother I am very demanding and caring, as a daughter I am very open and sharing, as a wife I am responsible and loving, as a husband I am patient and fulfilling, as a mother I am ready to sacrifice my life for my kids, as a father i am protective…. and for each different relationship a different face is portrayed.

Now, who knows us better among them? May be one of them or may be no one !!

But the point is….do you know, who you are? I think most of us are confused souls.

Searching for something, which even we don’t know..whether it will be useful for us or not.

We are running behind money and people.

Are they really going to help us in our karmic account, which we are carrying forward each time. Our true version need to be discovered….but how?

* Sit back quietly and know yourself.

* know what you are good at.

* Assess your relationship with others.

* Discover your passion.

* Relax and meditate.

* Ask for criticism.

* Talk to yourself in the mirror everyday.

The last tip will help a lot in knowing as well as improving ourselves. Looking into the mirror daily and speaking to self can discover a unique personality of ours hidden within us.

Once we know who we are and what we want from our life, then we have already reached half the way to achieve our life goals. Therefore keep discovering the real self and listen to it.

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Ignite the fire within

Lots of people among us dream of achieving certain goals in our lives. We keep on thinking about how to achieve them, and make efforts too. But that’s not enough. Trust me… till the fire inside is not ignited we can never achieve our goals.

Now the question is, why do we want to reach to a certain point or achieve something ? There should be a strong reason behind that. Only money cannot motivate us. For some it may be money, for some it may be fame, and for some it may be other factors like happiness, peace, etc.

Goals which are achieved for money doesn’t give us long term satisfaction while goals which are achieved for internal happiness will give us immense satisfaction.

I know making people happy around us, give us happiness. Some of us are working whole day just to make others happy. Each day when we get up, we think of how we can make our boss happy, or husband, wife, kids, friends, etc. In the process of making all of them happy, where is our happiness gone. So… we keep on diverting from our ultimate goals and waste our life s precious time.

Rather than thinking of all this. We should find out what we actually want from our lives. Our life is too short. Each and every second is precious which will never come back. Therefore, find out what do we actually want from our life and ignite the fire of feelings within.

When we do meditation or have a relaxed mind we can think best without any influences around us. That’s the best time to ask yourself what we actually want from our life. Once we get the correct idea, start following it and experience infinite happiness.

Luck or karma?

Karma is the action which we are performing in our daily life, the thoughts which we are creating for others and ourself, and the speech or language which we use. These thoughts, speech and action all together makes our karma.

Lot of people these days are concentrating more on destiny. Asking questions like, how lucky they are? Which means, to find out their luck they are dependent on astrology. They rely more on astrologers for their future and past, which I think is waste of time and money.

Whatever we have sown, we will definitely reap that. If this logic is clear in our minds then we don’t need to ask or rely on anyone for why certain things are happening with us, and why certain things are not happening. If we just concentrate on what we should do and what we should not do, then life will be more easy to understand.

We are taking life for granted, that whatever is written in our destiny will happen. But no, the truth is, whatever we want will happen and no one can change that for sure. But that want should be there.

Therefore, a person can be unlucky, but can create its own luck by building efforts towards the goals. Whereas, having a good luck doesn’t mean that all good things will happen to that person. If a person is not concerned about good and bad karmas then, even the good luck won’t work.

So, luck is the permutations and combinations of possibilities and karma is the cause and effect. We should always believe in what we are doing and do it consciously. We will definitely reap the benefits.

Effortless Happiness

There are several ways through which we find ways to be happy. Shopping, watching movies, traveling, entertaining ourself with things, etc. But have we ever realised why are we finding ways to be happy… we really don’t need to make any kind of efforts to experience happiness.

The real treasure of happiness is hidden within ourself. We just need to explore it. Instead of finding ways to be happy, start finding ways to escape stress, gossiping, tension, and anger. If we learn the art to escape all these stress creators, then we can win the battle of life effortlessly.

So what’s the right way to achieve it? There’s actually no particular way to attain happiness. It’s our natural behaviour and each one of us are inborn with this characteristic. Following the below thoughts may help avoid with such stress:

* Don’t bother about what people will say or think.

* Nobody can hurt our feelings.. the control is in our own hands.

* Help others as much as possible.

* Be happy for others.

* Be close to mother nature.

* And make people as much happy as you can.

The last point is very important, as if we can make others happy, then it means that happiness is not buried deep inside us….It’s still alive.

So, make happiness your habit, and it will automatically become your nature soon.

Innocence is bliss

Innocence is the best way to live blissfully. An innocent person is always devoted towards god, without even realising it. As a child has no differences in his or her mind towards others…they look at everyone with the same thoughts. No cunningness, or guilt at all. God always hold hands of such people.

But as they grow up, they learn from the society and environment around them how to behave artificially. So this chain continues and we all sail in the same boat.

Innocent people can talk without manipulating. They will never worry of what other person will think of them. Ready to help others openheartedly. Affectionate with all, light hearted, playful, jolly and expressive.

I think we should remain like a child in thoughts and enjoy all the happiness inside us. As being innocent has lots of advantages:

* we don’t care what people say or think about us.

* Helpful towards others.

* Expressing self.

* Happy with what and how much we have.

* No expectations.

* No regrets.

* Fun loving.

But there are lot of us who believe, that innocence doesn’t work in this world. We need to be immoral, as people around us are so. We need to behave as per our environment demands. But that’s not true. We can maintain our innocence no matter what kind of people are there around us. It totally depends on us how we want to mould ourself. Therefore, this is the best way to experience bliss and remain stress free.

Listening skills

Whenever people talk to us about something which is not of our interest, some of us like to listen to it and others ignore if they don’t want to hear to them. So, is it good to listen to people whom you are not interested to talk with… now that’s a question which can confuse us.

If we are not interested in a conversation and it’s necessary to get involved in it, then we should surely do it. There s no harm in listening to the views of others. It gives us an insight of what’s going on in other persons mind. As we meet more people and share there experiences and views it broadens our vision. We definitely get to learn from it whether we like it or not.

Listening is a skill which can be developed in ourself. The most important ingredient required is patience. You can steal someone s heart through patience and break too without it. So it’s a good news, we all can do it.

Trying to listen to other people’s views and understand them, nurture s our relationship with them. Each one of us is correct in our own views, so we cannot say that I am right and other person is wrong. Listen to others and then do what you think is right. Compare between a group of people who are sitting together and not listening to each other with that group who understands and listen s to each other. Obviously, people will be more calmer in the group in which there’s more understanding.

Therefore, keep practising your listening skills, meeting with different people and understanding their views about life.

So, keep your ears open.

Connecting with people

When we meet someone for the first time, how do we connect with them? Is there a procedure to do that? Not really. It happens naturally from within. We feel that connection from inside. What works… are the inner thoughts of the person. It doesn’t take too long to connect with a person who shares same thoughts as you have. Fake conversations doesn’t continue for too long.

There’s a kind of energy that flows within each of us, which when meet with each other, creates a combination of positive and negative behaviour towards others. If we are positive from inside even a negative person cannot affect us no matter how long we sit with him or her. Instead, we start giving that person positive vibrations automatically.

It’s a kind of state where we are in a blissful mode all the time. Wherever we go, what ever we do, whether we like it or not, we are comfortable with any kind of situation. Connecting with people helps a lot in any situation. No matter what the age is, we are in rhythm with all of them.

In the same way, connecting with god or the supreme energy is also very easy. If we have good thoughts, then we don’t need to connect with the energy every time, as we ourself has the energy to feel it within us.

Life… a beautiful vacation

We all are blessed to be gifted with such a beautiful life. Each and every moment of life should be enjoyed. It’s too short. We cannot make long term plans as nothing is fixed. Don’t depend on future circumstances to be happy. Just enjoy with what you have.

Experience life as a vacation. We go to different places while we are traveling. Meet different people. Sometimes some tragedies also happen while traveling. We can get hurt while enjoying

some activities, ! which we never expected…. Do we take all these memories seriously and keep thinking of them? No. We just keep them as a bad memory and never recall them as it was just a vacation.

Same is with life.. it’s like a holiday. Some injuries may happen while enjoying this holiday… But, we should keep going ahead and enjoy the beautiful situations coming in our way. Watch and learn with whatever is happening with us. Keep moving ahead. Don’t get stressed or tired. Just

relax🧘 and keep going again. Enjoy meeting with different people and make new friends. May be in so many of them you can find a true friend for yourself.

Never be afraid of going to new places and meeting with new people. It will always make you learn something new. Explore different temperaments, body language, speech, emotions, the way

people think, 🤣 😍 😏 😫 😡 🤨 😱 😇 etc. Analyse them and see what you want to learn and what you don’t want to learn from them.

If we can make people happy, then this is the best way to be blissful. When we give happiness to others then we experience inner peace and love for ourself and others too.

There’s so much to do in life that we can never get bored of it. And, if still someone is getting bored, then it means that they are not making much efforts to do things.

So, what all things can give us true experience of our life vacation ?

According to me, we can experience life to the fullest by giving importance to things like:

👉 Love yourself

👉 Take care of people around you.

👉 Never mind of people talking ill about you, its their own problem.

👉 Treat everyone with equal affection and love.

👉 Give importance to inner beauty rather then physical appearance. If we are beautiful from inside, it will show automatically..we don’t need to make any efforts.

👉 Believe in the energy within yourself and around us. Which can give us a blissful experience.

👉 Be positive and give positivity to others.

👉 Never be afraid of situations and fight with full courage.

👉 keep good memories which gives you happiness.

There is lot more to it..but if we can start with following atleast few of them, then life will be a beautiful vacation to be enjoyed.

Wonders of willingness

Our mind is the most sophisticated device in the world. It can create wonders. We can achieve our desired goals, if our mind is strong enough. But the technique is to use it in such a way that we can achieve whatever we want, no matter what the circumstances are.

If the human mind is charged with the power of willingness, then nobody can stop it from fulfilling the dreams. We have always heard the saying, when there’s a will there’s a way. It’s just the way we program ourself. If we are programming it with negative thoughts then it will move in that particular direction.

We need to understand the cycle of our thought process. Firstly, we need to change the way we look at things and situations. If we create the thought of oneness with whatever and whoever is around us then all the problems will be solved. Try thinking for people, as we think for ourself. It looks difficult to do that, but once in practice, we can change our whole perspective. Keep doing it….never give up.

Once, the perspective is changed, then the way we behave with others or react towards situations will change too. The circumstances will be created in our favour automatically and life will become smooth and easy to live.

Willingness expands our vision for life. We dive deeper into reality and think of multiple options to jump on. It’s the core thought to start and finish any task of life.

Therefore, if we believe in the willingness hidden within us, then we can achieve our goals easily. Keep repeating positive thoughts daily and one day they will definitely become our habit and finally our destiny.