Life… a beautiful vacation

We all are blessed to be gifted with such a beautiful life. Each and every moment of life should be enjoyed. It’s too short. We cannot make long term plans as nothing is fixed. Don’t depend on future circumstances to be happy. Just enjoy with what you have.

Experience life as a vacation. We go to different places while we are traveling. Meet different people. Sometimes some tragedies also happen while traveling. We can get hurt while enjoying

some activities, ! which we never expected…. Do we take all these memories seriously and keep thinking of them? No. We just keep them as a bad memory and never recall them as it was just a vacation.

Same is with life.. it’s like a holiday. Some injuries may happen while enjoying this holiday… But, we should keep going ahead and enjoy the beautiful situations coming in our way. Watch and learn with whatever is happening with us. Keep moving ahead. Don’t get stressed or tired. Just

relax🧘 and keep going again. Enjoy meeting with different people and make new friends. May be in so many of them you can find a true friend for yourself.

Never be afraid of going to new places and meeting with new people. It will always make you learn something new. Explore different temperaments, body language, speech, emotions, the way

people think, 🤣 😍 😏 😫 😡 🤨 😱 😇 etc. Analyse them and see what you want to learn and what you don’t want to learn from them.

If we can make people happy, then this is the best way to be blissful. When we give happiness to others then we experience inner peace and love for ourself and others too.

There’s so much to do in life that we can never get bored of it. And, if still someone is getting bored, then it means that they are not making much efforts to do things.

So, what all things can give us true experience of our life vacation ?

According to me, we can experience life to the fullest by giving importance to things like:

👉 Love yourself

👉 Take care of people around you.

👉 Never mind of people talking ill about you, its their own problem.

👉 Treat everyone with equal affection and love.

👉 Give importance to inner beauty rather then physical appearance. If we are beautiful from inside, it will show automatically..we don’t need to make any efforts.

👉 Believe in the energy within yourself and around us. Which can give us a blissful experience.

👉 Be positive and give positivity to others.

👉 Never be afraid of situations and fight with full courage.

👉 keep good memories which gives you happiness.

There is lot more to it..but if we can start with following atleast few of them, then life will be a beautiful vacation to be enjoyed.

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Wonders of willingness

Our mind is the most sophisticated device in the world. It can create wonders. We can achieve our desired goals, if our mind is strong enough. But the technique is to use it in such a way that we can achieve whatever we want, no matter what the circumstances are.

If the human mind is charged with the power of willingness, then nobody can stop it from fulfilling the dreams. We have always heard the saying, when there’s a will there’s a way. It’s just the way we program ourself. If we are programming it with negative thoughts then it will move in that particular direction.

We need to understand the cycle of our thought process. Firstly, we need to change the way we look at things and situations. If we create the thought of oneness with whatever and whoever is around us then all the problems will be solved. Try thinking for people, as we think for ourself. It looks difficult to do that, but once in practice, we can change our whole perspective. Keep doing it….never give up.

Once, the perspective is changed, then the way we behave with others or react towards situations will change too. The circumstances will be created in our favour automatically and life will become smooth and easy to live.

Willingness expands our vision for life. We dive deeper into reality and think of multiple options to jump on. It’s the core thought to start and finish any task of life.

Therefore, if we believe in the willingness hidden within us, then we can achieve our goals easily. Keep repeating positive thoughts daily and one day they will definitely become our habit and finally our destiny.

Feelings versus words

We use words to express while conversing with others. Where does these words originate from? Of course, the words pop out through the feelings we have for others. Our thoughts and feelings play an important role in the kind of words we are going to form.

While speaking we need to check the feelings before expressing any kind of word. When we say Hey! to someone, there are different ways to express it. Hey can be used with the feeling of love, hatred and surprise too… so in expressing, feelings are more important than words. Same word can have different meanings to it.

Analysing the emotions and it’s effect on others is very important. Words are the medium to express our feelings. Our intentions give fuel and power to any word. The energy which is transformed through the language creates drastic effects on people. Whether it’s business, job or home, right kind of energy can create wonders.

Therefore, both are important, as…. if we are not able to express ourself with right kind of words then the message passed will not be effective. And even if we use the right words but, the feelings are not appropriate, then too the conversation will be ineffective.

We all should try to create good thoughts and feelings, and put them into right kind of words. This will allow the conversation to be crystal clear.

“Meditation is a way to create good feelings and emotions which in turn will create beautiful words to express ourself.”

Win the Battle of Jealousy

If a person is not happy to see other persons happiness or success then it’s called as J factor or jealousy. Why this jealousy occurs inside us? What makes us jealous? And how can we get rid of it?

Now a days people are more happy to see a person in problems. And are more depressed when they see a person being more successful or prosperous than them.

I think people who are emotionally weak suffer from this disease. Small things can make such people upset. They feel insufficient within themselves. So, how can we help them or ourself if we are suffering with the same problem.

Whatever is happening around us and with us, it’s all because of our own karmas. If someone is enjoying good time then it’s because of the good deeds they have done, and vice versa. So, never regret of what’s happening to yourself as it’s all your own accountability. Our balance sheet should be maintained properly by balancing our inputs and outputs.

If we understand this simple thing, that whatever good is happening with people is because of their own deeds then we will never be jealous of them, as they are reaping the fruits of their own tree.

Never doubt on yourself and your abilities. Be confident of yourself and never be afraid of what people will say. If we are confident of what we are doing is correct, and is for good of ourself and people around us, then there will be no fear or hesitation. Therefore, Conquer your fears and see the beautiful part life.

Jealousy will kill you from inside and weaken you day by day. It creates anger which is another symptom of a weak and fearful mind. As soon as we conquer this enemy of ours we take one more golden step towards the gate of happiness.

So, to win the battle of jealousy we need to first calm down and discover our strengths rather than the weaknesses.

Relationship with universe

We all try to make relations with people around us. Relations with our family members and with all those people we want to be. We need a whole lot of efforts to do this. Taking care of them, listen to there views and opinions, following instructions of each other and love them the way they are.

If we maintain the same kind of relationship with the universe then it can cause wonders in our life. It’s a kind of virtual relationship which can only be felt from within. It cannot be expressed but can only be realised consciously. This can be done through yoga and meditation. If we do yoga and meditation early morning then it has its own benefits.

We can see the change in ourself, once we start doing it. We feel like doing everyday at the same time as if someone is waiting for us to connect with. Yes there is this power to which we can connect with. It’s a kind of relation which once formed can never be broken as there is no expectations here. Just keep absorbing energy from the universe and stay blissful.

Universe is a place from where we have come and where we have to go back. Respect this pillar of life or you can be in trouble. People who maintain a strong relationship with it are the happiest people on earth.

Doing meditation can help in healing your self and stay connected to all living things.