Listening skills

Whenever people talk to us about something which is not of our interest, some of us like to listen to it and others ignore if they don’t want to hear to them. So, is it good to listen to people whom you are not interested to talk with… now that’s a question which can confuse us.

If we are not interested in a conversation and it’s necessary to get involved in it, then we should surely do it. There s no harm in listening to the views of others. It gives us an insight of what’s going on in other persons mind. As we meet more people and share there experiences and views it broadens our vision. We definitely get to learn from it whether we like it or not.

Listening is a skill which can be developed in ourself. The most important ingredient required is patience. You can steal someone s heart through patience and break too without it. So it’s a good news, we all can do it.

Trying to listen to other people’s views and understand them, nurture s our relationship with them. Each one of us is correct in our own views, so we cannot say that I am right and other person is wrong. Listen to others and then do what you think is right. Compare between a group of people who are sitting together and not listening to each other with that group who understands and listen s to each other. Obviously, people will be more calmer in the group in which there’s more understanding.

Therefore, keep practising your listening skills, meeting with different people and understanding their views about life.

So, keep your ears open.

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Connecting with people

When we meet someone for the first time, how do we connect with them? Is there a procedure to do that? Not really. It happens naturally from within. We feel that connection from inside. What works… are the inner thoughts of the person. It doesn’t take too long to connect with a person who shares same thoughts as you have. Fake conversations doesn’t continue for too long.

There’s a kind of energy that flows within each of us, which when meet with each other, creates a combination of positive and negative behaviour towards others. If we are positive from inside even a negative person cannot affect us no matter how long we sit with him or her. Instead, we start giving that person positive vibrations automatically.

It’s a kind of state where we are in a blissful mode all the time. Wherever we go, what ever we do, whether we like it or not, we are comfortable with any kind of situation. Connecting with people helps a lot in any situation. No matter what the age is, we are in rhythm with all of them.

In the same way, connecting with god or the supreme energy is also very easy. If we have good thoughts, then we don’t need to connect with the energy every time, as we ourself has the energy to feel it within us.

Life… a beautiful vacation

We all are blessed to be gifted with such a beautiful life. Each and every moment of life should be enjoyed. It’s too short. We cannot make long term plans as nothing is fixed. Don’t depend on future circumstances to be happy. Just enjoy with what you have.

Experience life as a vacation. We go to different places while we are traveling. Meet different people. Sometimes some tragedies also happen while traveling. We can get hurt while enjoying

some activities, ! which we never expected…. Do we take all these memories seriously and keep thinking of them? No. We just keep them as a bad memory and never recall them as it was just a vacation.

Same is with life.. it’s like a holiday. Some injuries may happen while enjoying this holiday… But, we should keep going ahead and enjoy the beautiful situations coming in our way. Watch and learn with whatever is happening with us. Keep moving ahead. Don’t get stressed or tired. Just

relax🧘 and keep going again. Enjoy meeting with different people and make new friends. May be in so many of them you can find a true friend for yourself.

Never be afraid of going to new places and meeting with new people. It will always make you learn something new. Explore different temperaments, body language, speech, emotions, the way

people think, 🤣 😍 😏 😫 😡 🤨 😱 😇 etc. Analyse them and see what you want to learn and what you don’t want to learn from them.

If we can make people happy, then this is the best way to be blissful. When we give happiness to others then we experience inner peace and love for ourself and others too.

There’s so much to do in life that we can never get bored of it. And, if still someone is getting bored, then it means that they are not making much efforts to do things.

So, what all things can give us true experience of our life vacation ?

According to me, we can experience life to the fullest by giving importance to things like:

👉 Love yourself

👉 Take care of people around you.

👉 Never mind of people talking ill about you, its their own problem.

👉 Treat everyone with equal affection and love.

👉 Give importance to inner beauty rather then physical appearance. If we are beautiful from inside, it will show automatically..we don’t need to make any efforts.

👉 Believe in the energy within yourself and around us. Which can give us a blissful experience.

👉 Be positive and give positivity to others.

👉 Never be afraid of situations and fight with full courage.

👉 keep good memories which gives you happiness.

There is lot more to it..but if we can start with following atleast few of them, then life will be a beautiful vacation to be enjoyed.

Wonders of willingness

Our mind is the most sophisticated device in the world. It can create wonders. We can achieve our desired goals, if our mind is strong enough. But the technique is to use it in such a way that we can achieve whatever we want, no matter what the circumstances are.

If the human mind is charged with the power of willingness, then nobody can stop it from fulfilling the dreams. We have always heard the saying, when there’s a will there’s a way. It’s just the way we program ourself. If we are programming it with negative thoughts then it will move in that particular direction.

We need to understand the cycle of our thought process. Firstly, we need to change the way we look at things and situations. If we create the thought of oneness with whatever and whoever is around us then all the problems will be solved. Try thinking for people, as we think for ourself. It looks difficult to do that, but once in practice, we can change our whole perspective. Keep doing it….never give up.

Once, the perspective is changed, then the way we behave with others or react towards situations will change too. The circumstances will be created in our favour automatically and life will become smooth and easy to live.

Willingness expands our vision for life. We dive deeper into reality and think of multiple options to jump on. It’s the core thought to start and finish any task of life.

Therefore, if we believe in the willingness hidden within us, then we can achieve our goals easily. Keep repeating positive thoughts daily and one day they will definitely become our habit and finally our destiny.

Feelings versus words

We use words to express while conversing with others. Where does these words originate from? Of course, the words pop out through the feelings we have for others. Our thoughts and feelings play an important role in the kind of words we are going to form.

While speaking we need to check the feelings before expressing any kind of word. When we say Hey! to someone, there are different ways to express it. Hey can be used with the feeling of love, hatred and surprise too… so in expressing, feelings are more important than words. Same word can have different meanings to it.

Analysing the emotions and it’s effect on others is very important. Words are the medium to express our feelings. Our intentions give fuel and power to any word. The energy which is transformed through the language creates drastic effects on people. Whether it’s business, job or home, right kind of energy can create wonders.

Therefore, both are important, as…. if we are not able to express ourself with right kind of words then the message passed will not be effective. And even if we use the right words but, the feelings are not appropriate, then too the conversation will be ineffective.

We all should try to create good thoughts and feelings, and put them into right kind of words. This will allow the conversation to be crystal clear.

“Meditation is a way to create good feelings and emotions which in turn will create beautiful words to express ourself.”